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A Love Story

During these difficult times I think everyone is looking for a feel-good story. That’s why during this Easter season, and while the prison and everyone else is on a Covid-19 lock down, I was thinking about a story my mother had told me many years ago. It was a love story about her parents, my Grandma and Grandpa. Growing up I was not very close with my maternal grandparents, but I always knew they loved me. And I loved them.

One day, back in 2002, during a visit with my mother in the prison’s visiting center, my mother and I were talking about some family history. At that time I had been locked away from my family for 6 years and was still desperately trying to hold on to a connection to home and my life prior to incarceration. I told my mother that as a child I remembered seeing some old black and white family photographs of my grandparents. I described the photos to my mother and she told me she would look for them to send to me. This is what mom sent me:

Brian’s mom shares the love story of her parents. “The rest is history.”
U.S. Navy sailor Edward arranged for a special delivery to his beloved Claire.

My Grandpa died on my daughter Amber’s birthday in 2007 and Grandma passed in 2008 after 61 years of marriage. I was not able to be with my family to morn their passing, but I felt the loss nonetheless. Not getting to know them better will always be one of my life’s regrets. I love and miss them.

Grandma and Grandpa’s wedding anniversary is next month in May but, I think I will always consider Easter as their special day. After all, for me Easter has always signified spring, new life, and new hope. So this Easter I will lovingly remember Grandma and Grandpa and their love story. It will make me smile. I hope it makes you smile, too.

The back of this photo reads, “What do you mean you have no money to pay the bill?”

Happy Easter to all. Please be safe.

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